Weighing me down…

I think at this point I must be honest with some of my male friends. I have been hurt recently by some weight comments you’ve made about women. It doesn’t sit well with girls to continuously have this be the topic of conversation. Yes, humans are wired to notice physical beauty: especially men. God made us this way and that is ok. But beauty doesn’t stop there.

It is my belief that when a man is so focused on outward beauty it will take quite a bit to find a lasting relationship when such a fickle thing is the main focus. I am saddened to fathom the numerous potential relationships that men could have with wonderful women that are disregarded simply because she isn’t a size 4 or STUNNING.

Women who fall in the middle of the ‘beauty spectrum’ are most likely going to be more down to earth, full of great character, and think more of others than themselves than ones whose goal everyday is to out-dress and out-make-up the next girl. If men are egotistical and want praise and support and attention from women, but the women they want are spending too much time on themselves in thought and action, then good luck with that.